在女性的观念里,她们往往很容易地认为她们的成就和技术不如男人,她们常常没有足够的信心来相信和认知自己的能力,她们也认为在信用方面远不如男人。如果你是女性,你在求职时是否也犯了以下这些常见的错误?
不相信自己是优秀的
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没有强化自身的经验、技能
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对掌握新知识能力轻描淡写
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不谈薪水、利益和工作条件
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为什么没有被雇用?
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重复自己犯过的错误
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